"The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desire brings weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat" - Napolean Hill
I was blogging....and went to MrDJ's blog (he's one of my fave), he updates lotsa lotsa latest songs...songs tat you might not heard of but can simply fall in lurve with.
Anyway, that's not my point. What I wanted to say is that I read about his review about the video "All the same" by Sick Puppies (which I loaded here in my blog...do click on it). The video is about free hugs by this guy name Juan Mann. Well, I wish I can be as brave as him - I mean...if Msian are open to the extend that they will not take advantage of a hug....I wun mind trying giving free hugs. =) But well, I dun blame on Msia totally....mayb part of myself is not ready to that extend yet. But I really lurves HUGS! I wish I can heals ppl hearts with one big and warm hugs.
Hugs that heals a broken heart. The last time I hugged a friend....she cried in my arms. I am not sure if my hugs help a lot, but at least that's what I'm always ever ready to give it to her. I can remember I hugged her and keep on telling her "It's ok". We were sobbing. That's how emotional I can be. Cant be sure to what extend a hug will helps, but at least it express our cares and love to a broken heart.
Hugging for a farewell. I hugged an ex-colleague when she left us for another company and made me cried. I did not sob, but tears just falls from my eyes. My colleagues hugged me when I left....and I succeeded not to cry...cos I promise myself that I will not cry. I dowan to cry not because I think they dun deserve any tears from me but to tell myself that its never the end of friendship yet. We will always meet up.
Hugging for a fresh start. I met up with Cath when I was in Brisbane last year. The moment she saw me....she gave me a big big hug. I cannot even recall any hugs we had before, but I can always remember this big big hug that she gave me. Its like a new start.....I cherish the friendship that we had...and the honesty in each of us in the friendship. Its a hug tat I will always remember.
Hugging for the first time. Guess who is the first guy that I ever hug? Some good friends will know his existance in my life - the relationship was sweet, but short & sad. That's how i define it. He's the first man in my life that I physically get to hugs. I can still remember the feeling...its so warm and I felt Love! I tho it was love...but end up I knew it was not about love...its more of a sex kinda thing. So..hmmm, screwed my virgin-hugs fr a guy? but it was sweet.
Hugging to sleep. I just lurve lurve lurve hugging my dahling to sleep. I got 4 dahlings to hugs to sleep...I got JJ, bao bei, Patrick and my hubbie dahling of course. It was such a mess to hug so many....but I like it. Hugging my hubbie to sleep....I felt bless. Bless to have him with me...and walk my life with me. xoxo.
I feel bad now, I have not hug my parents in ages. Felt like huggin them now....and I miss them so much. I was looking at their picture....and the one thing that cross my mind is that "i hv max of 40 years more to have them in my life"....and I started sobbing. I am really scared of losing them. Love them so much that no one in my life that can ever replace them. They hav given me the best thing that they can give me.....Loving them every minute. =)
Was watching ep12 of Grey's Anatomy and O'Mailey dad's died. I sobbed again. Lesson learn : Talk and be with them while we still can. Maybe its weird to start hugging them and tell them that I love them, but I will try. Dun wan to wait for the last breath to do all this.
I cant physically giv u any hugs now....but when u see me and u think u need a hug - Joe is ever ready. XOXO. If a hug can de-stress you and make u feel more relieve, just tell the one that sits next to you "I need a hug, do u mind?"