"The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desire brings weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat" - Napolean Hill
friend says: feel lagi teruk.. coz i change boss but remain the same work ..my boss like to plan for meeting after workin hours...
+jayzophrenia+ o(*_*)o says: gosh....totally understand...i was once like tis...
friend says: then need to prepare the things tat he wan during weekend...crazy ge
+jayzophrenia+ o(*_*)o says: no life at all
friend says: sumore i dun like my department culture...they hv the staying bc trend
+jayzophrenia+ o(*_*)o says: sets ur own trend....the-leave-office-on-time-trend. Its important u noe....
friend says: yea....so that they wun approach you after work
+jayzophrenia+ o(*_*)o says: yea man. I am setting the same trend now. Feels life is more meaningful and I feel like I'm starting to enjoy life more.....and not just work like a dog.
Izzit real that we cant change the situation in our work? and hv the No-Life slogan always on our mind? cant we work smart...and hv a balance between work and personal life? Why do ppl set 8 hours a day for working but we so kiasu (cos if not, boss will think that we are lazy and not dedicated our work) that we work more than that? We stay bc cos we are really happie to stay bc.....or cos hmm, we hope for something more?
The most common staying bc reason.....
Reason : I hv a lot a lot of work...not finish yet lar. tat's why need to stay bc lor. Solution : work can never finish de. Our boss give us work after one another....how to finish? and if you are giving the same reasons EVERYDAY (which, means u stay bc everyday)...that means, you are slow or overloaded by work, rite? If you are slow, cant blame anyone, if u think u are overloaded with work, maybe can talk to ur boss nicely. I mean once in a while, oklar....cos we need to rush for projects. But always...and in fact everyday? wow! better think what is the problem.
Reason : I hv meeting with my boss after 5.30pm Solution : To me this can be avoided de. Once a while is oklar....but ALWAYS??????? its not rite lor. Why the fuck they tell us workin hours is from 9am to 5.30pm, when they cant understand the meaning of it? They hv nuttin to do after working hours, doesnt mean....we dun plans rite? Tho they are the boss, but remember we are just human!
Reason : I need to prove to my boss that I'm hardworking and that I can do all the task that he gave me POV : well, dun hv a solution for this. But just my POV. If we were pressure so much for a promotion/prove to the boss that we can do it, just think twice, izzit worth it anot? If you think, all the hard work worth it all....then never complaints but just do it! But to me, If I WERE to sacrifice my freedom and health for just a promotion, dun think I'll ever want it. So diff ppl, diff POV here. But to me, really.....if a promotion is base on how hard u work and not how u know to balance life....haha, well...maybe i really dowan a promotion. I wan to be promoted for who I am and not who I force myself to be. If I rela to work hard..staybc or comin bc on weekends....to prove to my boss that I can do it....then i wun complaint. Cos that is what I wan to be. But why some ppl complaint for wat not ppl forcing them to do? Cos I think, they are forcing themself to do it.
So izzit, work smart or work hard? U decide. But I hv decided to work smart and hopefully I can succeed. hehe.