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A while back I was reading this article from yahoo.

Headline says : Is The One You're Dating "The One"?

It captures my attention immediately. Reason is because this registration of marriage thingy has been discusssed too much lately. I dun actually have any URGENCY to register, but I was just thinking..maybe it is time to think about it. I hav always ask myself "IS HE THE ONE?" Seriously, I really dont know. I wish there will be someone out there to tell me that "YES he is the one for you!"

I love him, it doesn't mean I doubt if he's the one..that I dun love him enough. Its just that... u know, having the thought of being with him for the rest of my life, can I ever able to do tat? and can i ever love him with all my hearts till death do us part...and can i be sure that I can still love him no matter how has he become? lotsa lotsa questions keep on running in my mind. If I can ever have an answer for all that, then I'm ever ready for a marriage.

Well, he did not propose YET (hehe).....its just tat...u know, when we are in a steady relationship, we plan for a marriage. And so, everyone started to plan for a marriage with the very basic things of owning a house...financially muz be stable in order to married. But things works a bit diff for me, all I care about is that can I promise and make a vow that I will love him FOREVER. You c, ppl plan for all the houses and money(s) which makes things very practical. But what if "the one" that they hv choosen, one day could not give her what she wanted...like umm, suddenly he bankrupt or u noe, money is jz tight, will the marriage still work out? I just wanna be firm to myself that altho one day...he cannot delivers what I wanted....I can still accept him and love him. I know it sounds a bit confusing but that's what "through good times and bad times" meant, rite? tell me if I'm wrong and tell me that "JO, u need to be PRACTICAl!"

So.....its the dilemma of "THE ONE is THE ONE?" hmmmm...

until I read Rachel Greenwald article @ yahoo. well, the articles helps me to sort of decides whether is he The One and the idea of how her husband and herself commit to their marriage. Try reading her article, its interesting and I trust me it will open your mind about commitment.
http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static/relationships_odds-couple-tango

And ummm..... so is HE THE ONE? hehehhehehehehhee, wanna know LEH?????

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COMON, you think I'll ever tell u HERE @ my blog like NOW? hehehehe.

You'll know when I'm ready to tell. =)

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